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Sarah's avatar

It’s my only free evening this week - I’m going to celebrate Mr. Rogers Day by having some of Chris’ soup for dinner and donating to his grocery fund. What he calls “being part of the sacred circle of giving and receiving.”

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Mari, the Happy Wanderer's avatar

What a beautiful way to honor Mr. Rogers and Chris!

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Lyra's avatar

This was a really lovely read that's made me unexpectedly weepy, so while I'd very much like to share some kind of touching story or more bolstering comment, I'm forced to instead leave it at that and go blow my nose ❤️

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Mari, the Happy Wanderer's avatar

Oh me too! It is impossible for me to think of Mr. Rogers without tearing up. But don’t worry that you haven’t thought of a touching story—you’ll get another chance next week!

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Kathleen McCook's avatar

You would like this:

Explore the neighborhood that shaped Mister Rogers on this self-guided walking tour of Rollins College, and find out how we’re keeping his legacy alive on America’s most beautiful campus. Along the way, you’ll experience exclusive Mister Rogers memorabilia and artwork and get a feel for how we’re educating the next generation of global citizens and responsible leaders. In honor of Fred's birthday, the tour will be offered from March 1-April 5,

https://www.rollins.edu/mister-rogers/walking-tour/

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Mari, the Happy Wanderer's avatar

This is so wonderful, Kathleen! Thank you so much for letting us all know about it!

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Samhain's avatar

Fred Rogers, GOAT.

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Dalboz's avatar

Mr. Rogers was always my favorite as a child ... Important memories!

One thing I've learned about watching Mr. Rogers with my kids now is that he did these weird kind of psychedelic opera episodes sometimes, like this one that my son got into for a while -- https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x8sa0gk. I didn't remember these!

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Mari, the Happy Wanderer's avatar

I remember those opera episodes! Is that the beautiful and golden-voiced Betty Aberlin in that clip?! (And who is the strapping man playing her brother?!) Thanks for sharing the link!

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Dalboz's avatar

Yes! Betty and Brother Lloyd go to Other Land and Brother Lloyd gets kidnapped by the wicked witch and imprisoned in her taffy factory. But luckily the swans and beavers help them out.

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Lightwing's avatar

I so love this - thank you for writing it.

Bloom where you are planted (70s).

Personhood - Leo Buscaglia (80s).

Practice random acts of kindness and senseless acts of beauty (90s).

I could go on and on with all of the books and articles I've read on the topic of kindness.

We have to push against the wave of contempt that has engulfed the modern zeitgeist lest we forget what we are supposed to be doing on this planet — loving each other into fullness. Neighborly kindness has saved my life more than once. And I try to give it back whenever I am able. I tip servers extra. I am always kind to checkout clerks and try to make them smile. I cut people slack when they screw up. I treat delivery drivers like they are human beings. I have human conversations with my house cleaners. And I just hope that this generosity comes back around to bless me when I most need it — on those days when I need a helping hand.

Appreciation, recognition, mentoring, uplift - all of these are easy gifts to give. Thank you for your lovely words. They've made my day. 🌼

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Mari, the Happy Wanderer's avatar

These are all lovely ways to brighten someone’s day! And your thoughtful comment has brightened mine!

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Quinn Ivins's avatar

Great post! And let's all remember that cats are our neighbors too.

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Mari, the Happy Wanderer's avatar

I keep telling my dog, Lynn, this, but she never listens!

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Rick LaReau's avatar

I find the story of Judy very moving.

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Mari, the Happy Wanderer's avatar

I really feel like Matt, because of his strong ethics, saved me from doing something selfish and mean.

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Laura's avatar

My parents still live in the same neighborhood where I grew up. They are in their 80s and have two remaining long-term neighbors. You might think that I'm about to describe what those other neighbors do for my aging parents, but that's not it. Those people do help my parents but my parents help them just as much. My mom just drove one of them to the hospital during an emergency and walks everyday with one who had lost much of her vision, even though my mom's older. My dad helps with plumbing jobs and electrical repairs, as he has for years. And they eat together and attend the opera together regularly. They are all older but keeping themselves young by maintaining a community. They are an amazing example of community among neighbors. ❤️

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Mari, the Happy Wanderer's avatar

I think your parents and my parents would get along! Being embedded in a community with mutual responsibilities to one another is so important. It’s how we used to live for nearly all of human history, after all. Please give your parents a hug from me!

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