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Theresa Brown's avatar

I would present family dinner as a form of love language. We have always made a point of having dinner together as a family whenever possible, to the point of not eating until 8pm on the days I worked at the hospital, because that's when I would be home from my shift (ironically, 8pm is normal for dinner in Spain, where I'm living now). Even after the kids went to college--in Pittsburgh, where we live--we continued to have dinner together on Sundays, a sacred event that is now officially called "Fam Dinner." We have even done Fam Dinners while Arthur and I have been overseas this past year. It's about the food, yes, but also the connection and enjoying being together.

Also Deborah Tannen needs to have her head examined if she is trying to pass off criticism as love. Criticism is not love. Not ever. There's no excuse for parents being critical of their kids. Parental concerns can be expressed, but in a loving way, not as criticism--the two things are distinctly and radically different.

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Jay Moore's avatar

The best love language is Klingon.

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